Usually if something goes wrong and it's my fault the first immediate thing I start thinking is like "how can I fix that?" and start think at least 2 ways to sort it out, because you can't just let the wrong thing stay there
If like in family it's something I say will go wrong, I don't get listened and then it goes wrong that pisses me off and I do blame because it has happened more than once and everytime I gave a warn
On Facebook really as you say people throw so much at each other it's even ridiculous, why even bother and waste so much time on that shit? Like are you winning a medal or a prize or something?