Why I left the PowerHouseCreatives community

in #lifestyle4 years ago


I wasn't going to address this publicly, but after I left the PowerHouseCreatives community this past Thursday, a number of people reached out to me asking what was up (as well as passing along rumors and speculation). I decided I should take a moment to set the record straight.

I didn't leave because of one person. I left because it was time for me to make a change.

For the past two years, I've spent countless hours promoting the community - upvoting, resteeming, commenting, and sharing across social media. I didn't do those things with the expectation of reciprocity - I did it because when I am as passionate about something as I am about the Steem blockchain, I want to do whatever I can to help it achieve success, regardless of the benefit to myself.

And honestly - I'm not saying that like it's a good thing, because I don't see that as a positive. It's more akin to bullheaded determination than any kind of laudable character trait.

Being forced to take time off recently from all social media after I re-injured my thumb made me realize that my focus has been on the wrong things for far too long. I was considering reducing my support to the bare minimum required, but that didn't sit well with me. Something had to give, but I wasn't sure what that was.

When a former member (who I had an issue with a few months back) rejoined the group, I took it as a sign that it was time to move on. Normally I would have no issue co-existing with someone like that - I'm not the type of person to burn down a house to get rid of a spider. I am, however, the type to walk out quietly and close the door behind me when that house no longer feels like a home.

To anyone saying I'm being childish and need to grow up - I believe this is what mature and responsible adults (not that anyone's ever accused me of being either... 😂 ) are suppose to do. They cut their losses and walk away respectfully, rather than stomping their feet and shouting about who is right and who is wrong. One lesson that I've learned over the years that “you can't change other people. You can only change yourself."

I will be forever grateful to @jaynie and the #PowerHouseCreatives (aka @steemitbloggers) for everything they've done, and I plan to continue to support a large number of the community going forward. I'm also excited at the prospect of finding new Steemians to connect with in this brave new Steem land.

Actually, now that I think about it, I did leave because of one person. Me.


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I left the other day. When something starts to feel like a job and it’s not something needs to change.

I am at a point where I want to reduce the amount of time I spend on Steem to 3 or 4 days a week. Not every 7 days a week and every spare moment I have.

Thank you for all the support and kindness you have shown me. You always went the extra mile even when you didn’t need to.

Thank you.

Oh wow, @enjar - I didn't realize that. And you're very welcome - I've just followed your Steem profile so that we won't lose touch. Thank you in return for your kind words. 😊

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Upvoted 👌 (Mana: 0/2)

Thanks so much, @kgakakillerg! 😊

As one of our longest standing members, and someone I considered a close friend - your "silent" exit was nothing short of hurtful @traciyork. Your issues with "said" member are exactly that - your issues - something the two of you should have addressed like adults - but that never happened. However, I would like to add that within hours of your "departure" you clearly voiced your distaste at the fact that all PHC members were getting equal upvote percentages and that someone who is a more "established" member, such as yourself - deserved more.

I have one objective running PHC and that is to get us as far ahead, as quickly as I can. Sometimes, this requires sacrifice from all - which I explained to you in detail directly. I will not waver from that path because if that is not my primary interest, then of what use am I as a community head?

I do realise that none of the above is of any consequence now, but for the point of clarification I thought I would drop by and have my say.

There were MANY other ways in which you could have approached this - one's in which friendships were left in tact - but each to their own.

All the best to you on your new Steem journey Traci.

All the best to you as well, @jaynie.

I would resteem this, but Curie and OC and the big whales dont really vote without tons of pictures :P

No worries, @thekitchenfairy! I appreciate the thought, but I will definitely keep that in mind next time I use two dozen pictures for one of my posts! 😂 😊

See what not having time to be in Discord does...I don't have a clue. It's kind of like being cut off for the news too. I know about what seems to be important, but I am not anywhere near as stressed as I was. You have to do what is right for you regardless of method or why you know this.

Due to the situation I can't say I wouldn't do the same. It's time for a change, a new chapter. I'm here for you. I can't wait to see what is next.

It's amazing how much stress we carry on a daily basis without even realizing it, @tryskele, and how stepping away from things like Discord and social media can be so healing. I really appreciate your words and your support, dear lady. 🤗 💜

You're very welcome.

In the end, we all have to take care of our own wellbeing. No matter how real things seem to be online, we still need to shine our own life and do what needs to be done.

You fight for yourself and what you believe in and that makes you strong for being capable of doing just that. It can be hard for many to do it.

If you feel good about your choices, you are on the right path, whatever that may be.

Wise words indeed, @foxyspirit! This was not a decision I made lightly, and I do feel in my gut it was the right thing to do. I really appreciate your encouragement and for your kindness. 🤗 😘

It is always hard when we give so much, and work hard towards something we believe in. I understand that.

You are very welcome 🙂 it's good to have that backup person to let you know things are ok.

Exactly right, dear lady. And thank you once again. 😊

Sorry to see you leave phc @traciyork, but I understand as we all have tough decisions to make now and then. If you think it's the right move for you, it is. :) You'll still be here on steemit, so we don't have to miss you completely!

Thank you @free-reign and exactly right - I'm definitely not leaving the Steem platform, so in that respect, not much will change. I appreciate your understanding, and hope you have a wonderful week ahead. 😊 🤗

Return to old watering holes for more than water; friends and dreams are there to meet you. ~ African Proverb

No I don't want to know the debacle, we are all in Steem and will see each other again Traci, each to their own in decision making.

Makes perfect sense to me, Joan and you're absolutely correct - we are all here on Steem together, so no worries about losing touch. Thanks for dropping by! 🤗 😊

Sorry to see you go from pic. You were such a strong force and presence within the group; always contributing and offering suggestions.
We'll cross paths along thebsteemit blockchain I'm sure.
Wish you well in your endeavors!!

Thanks so much, @goldendawne - I appreciate the compliment. We'll most assuredly cross paths on the blockchain, and best wishes to you too! 😊 💜

Sorry to see you go from phc. You were such a strong force and presence within the group; always contributing and offering suggestions.
We'll cross paths along thebsteemit blockchain I'm sure.
Wish you well in your endeavors!!

Sorry to see you go from phc. You were such a strong force and presence within the group; always contributing and offering suggestions.
We'll cross paths along thebsteemit blockchain I'm sure.
Wish you well in your endeavors!!

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I don't think we need to be in a group to connect each other, I still see you everywhere in other social media apart from here, so no good bye but see you around!

Very true, @roselifecoach! Your name has been popping up on Twitter, and I just followed you here so we definitely don't need to say goodbye! 😊

Glad you did! See you around ya!

Still, we are connected here at Steemiverse. =) i found myself having lesser and lesser time one Steem as well. One day, I might not commit much too. But still will check in on this side of the world on and off. Stay connected. Hope your thumb is better.

Exactly, @iamjadeline! Understandable why you'd have less Steem time these days, with how busy everything is with your family. I'm so glad that you plan to keep checking in though, so we can stay connected. And yes, thanks - my thumb is feeling much better now. 😊

You know how when a professional athlete leaves their team and it gets all blown up and blown out of proportion across the media and then people start speculating and then everyone chimes in? People from all over the place start voicing their opinion as though they know what’s going on in the athletes mind and their opinion is to alter those thoughts? Am I rambling? I hope I’m not rambling because I’ve never done that, ever.

Where was I? 🤔

Oh! You can follow me if you want, I was gonna say that, don’t let me forget to tell you. I’m not new like you said you’re looking to connect with but we can pretend I am if you’d like. I’m only slightly rough around the edges... and in the middle a little bit too. Maybe on the top slightly, ok, the bottom, front and back, too, geez!

Really, though, where in the heck was I going with that opening paragraph?

See. Told you I don’t ramble which, by the way, I couldn’t imagine injuring a thumb!

Something, something, athlete, something, media, oh yeah!! I read the comments on this article and thought I was reading some professional athlete ish but I’m not—all of this excitement over a social media account, REALLY?! What’s next?? Bloodshed over polictical parties whom nobody has ever shaken hands with or personally spoken to? Nah... that’ll never happen.

This is that rambling thing I was telling you about in the first paragraph—the thing I said I never do.

Ps. About the fire for a spider thing, I think I’ll use that one now instead of my “when I burn bridges, I make sure the whole world sees the flame” because yours sounds a little sweeter, I mean, who doesn’t enjoy a good spider fire?

#satire <— for anyone who wants to bite my head off right now.

Anything beyond this sentence is justifiably a ramble, @traciyork, so I have to stop now—I hope you understand.

ROTFLMAO! What an awesome way to make an entrance reply, @dandays! As you're already aware, yes I am now following you, thanks to this. Well, more like I checked out your profile after reading this, got lost browsing through your recent posts, replied to one or two, saw a butterfly, and here I am back where I started this morning (hubby and I are about to hit the hay). Thanks for stopping by, and happy to have connected with you!

My pleasure! I’m just glad I found this one. And I’m glad we’re buddies now. And I’m glad to write more but I already told you I was gonna respond to that other one last night so I’m glad to leave this one now and I’m glad to go to the other one.

Gladdest is a wOrd, by the way. 😉 No, really, I’m going to the other now—watch..

I'm glad you pointed out that gladdest is a word - not that I worried, but glad I didn't have to wonder. And I missed replying to your reply on the other one the next day by an hour or so, but now I'm not glad to say it will be another day before I can gladly give it the attention it deserves. Aren't you glad?

Speaking of glad, you ever spelled it backwards? Neither have I and I’m not even sure what I asked that question.... What is it, Sunday or something? It must be Sunday.

I’m hungry. Ok, first I’m asking ridiculous questions and now I’m informing you of my appetite. Ima stop now before I do something completely in left field like ask what day it is.

THANK YOU <— bigger than that for the Resteem(s) @traciyork—I’m glad we met. Both thumbs are smiling. Good ol’ Plants strikes again.

Have I ever spelled "glad" backwards, as in dalg? Nope, can't say that I ha... oh, wait. Actually now I can say that I have... 😂 Although my usual way of spelling it is, "gald" because my brain gets ahead of my fingers most days... or is it the other way 'round...?

Lately, if it weren't for the interwebz, I'd never know what day it is - hubby has been out of work because of a shoulder injury/surgery, so one day tends to blend into another. However, after four months of being home together ALL THE TIME we're still on speaking terms, so that's gotta count for something, right?

And you're very welcome! Yes, @plantstoplanks is a gem, and a big...

THANK YOU KATIE

...to her for shining a light wicked bright so us moths can find each other. 🌞 🦋

 

P.S. I hope the moth comparison doesn't bug you, @dandays.
P.P.S. I keep parsing your name as, "Dandy" which reminds me of my favorite childhood book, Dandelion, so apologies in advance for any time I slip and refer to you as such... 😂
P.P.P.S. I haven't forgotten about the book I'm writing in response to your book...