Isn't it strange that parents are spying on their 23 year old daughter? This is obviously a cultural thing there, but it does point to a lack of trust and communication breakdown in both directions, doesn't it?
Spying was an uusual things , not every patents does that, call it their intutuin or thinking of l an orthodox family who does not want their kids to make any relationship outside. They are more into arranged marriage kind of sentiments... the outcome was mlre surprising where the girl is carried away with the societal pressure.