which might be true

BAHAHAHAHHAHAHAAAAA maybe change "might be" to "is" XD

it requires paying attention to the environment and situations of others to be able to identify when help might be required

I wonder if that falls under mental loading where the people doing most of the mental loading might not notice because they're too wrapped up in working through their own task lists or are too desperate to avoid adding any more to it and so just feel guilty about not helping later, and the people who don't or actively refuse to do any mental loading at all will sputter the "you should have asked" excuse.

Then if you are willing to help apparently it makes a world of difference between saying "can I help" and "do you need help" and good luck figuring out which one is more appropriate to which person at what time x_x