Earlier today, I had a deep convo with one of my colleague. Thinking about it now I realized something, it is that most of the regrets we have don't come from the mistakes that we make, but from things we never did/decisions we never made.
What do you think?
Life is a rollercoaster of learning, unlearning and relearning. Most times, fear may make us not take a step, and we end up with regrets. For me, I prefer to take the risk. If I fail, I learn. If I win, I move on.
Huhm, that's a good one, sir.
I hope we can all get to that stage and know that life itself is a risk. So it's Better sha we take the risk now or regret it later.
Life always teache us in many ways. We just have to sit down and understand the lesson it's trying to teach.
It's the fact that this same thought occupied my mind during the day. Was even thinking to write a post on that.
I came to the realisation that I tend to dwell so much on the past. Not the things I did wrong. But the ones I could have done but didn't. Actions, words, name it 🤦
Wawuu...
You can still do that, don't think about it, go ahead ASAP.
It's just the reality of most of us, swrs.
You're absolutely right. When I think about the past. I will think about situations where one word could have saved me, or talking to someone could have help me. And so many things just like that. It hurts when I think about it.