I need to be in the right space to have a proper conversation. Huge social functions are usually not those cases. At least most of the time. A lot of it has to do with my ADHD and the fact that I have a hard time focusing anyway, let alone when there are a million other conversations going on.
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Perhaps in Finnish it is a bit the same for me - too many conversations going too fast, and then when I want to say something, the moment has passed by the time I get it formed and a chance?
Yes, that happens to me all the time. I actually used to get made fun of back in school for it. It's honestly heartbreaking for someone who isn't very social to have something they want to contribute to a conversation, but as they politely wait for their turn to share it they witness the conversation move in a totally different direction and when they finally get the chance to share they look like a moron talking about a topic from five minutes ago... Pretty specific example there right? Don't ask me how I know!