Introducing the funky tree of Benahavís and some life ponderings

in Reflections3 days ago (edited)

Funky

What's funky?

James Brown is funky.

What else is funky?

For me, this tree. This tree is funky.

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Look at those twisting vines.

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Funky.

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I love how it frames their front door.

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I love how it reaches for the sun for growth and sustainance.

Nature doing its thing.

What ya doing?

Just growing.

Funky.

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Nature is the greatest teacher.

Don't believe me?

Show me any invention, any innovation and I'll show you a connection to something in nature that inspired it.

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If you're feeling a bit blue, a bit down, a bit tired, I implore you to spend some time in nature.

The only rule is try to turn off your mind, not your brain, your incessant busy judgmental mind. Just be at one with nature.

Listen.

Look.

Smell.

Be.

Exist.

I'll bet you'll come away an hour or two later feeling better about things.

The power of nature.

The power of now.

Forget yesterday and tomorrow. Just be. That's the secret folks, that and don't be an Asshole.

Simple.

Hold that door.

Smile.

Ask a stranger how their day is.

Stop and talk to the homeless man and ask him how he's doing, then buy him a sandwich or a cup of tea.

Just be a good human.

It's not complicated.

The marketers want you to think it is.

I'll be happy when.... I get the designer threads

I'll be happy when.... I get the big job

I'll be happy when.... I get the rolex

I'll be happy when.... I get the sportscar

Bullshit!

It's all bullshit.

It's right on front of you.

Nature.

Love.

Family.

Gratefulness.

The habitual and the banal.

Birdsong.

A human smile.

An old person's story.

Children's laughter.

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Maybe this vine personifies life and all of it's twists and turns. Ups and downs. Life and death.

Maybe each branch is someone or something in your life that weaves into your very spirit?

My wife and kids are my vines. My parents and siblings are also intertwined. My friends are also part of this mix of what is me. Importantly though, the core of the vine is me and it's OK to make time for me, to appreciate me.

Is that cocky? Is that selfish?

I don't think that it is.

When I'm the best version of me, I feel that I bring warmth and energy into a room or a conversation, and what's wrong with that?

I noticed it in one of my sister's in recent years, how good she was to herself, but I also noticed how she lights up any room with a glow of humour, positivity, happiness.

I learned that the most important thing is to be happy in one's skin and everything else grows and blossoms like the vine.

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Thanks as always for stopping by everyone

Peace Out

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My wife and kids are my vines. My parents and siblings are also intertwined. My friends are also part of this mix of what is me. Importantly though, the core of the vine is me and it's OK to make time for me, to appreciate me.

I don't think it is selfish at all. I think if we each take care of our core with the intent to better support the other branches and become more intertwined, the better we would all be. It is like the "many twigs are hard to break" - community should all be intertwined.

I don't mean inbred.

Also. James Brown is Funky.

"many twigs are hard to break" - community should all be intertwine

I love that 👆🏻

Who's qoute is that?

well the first bit:

"A single twig breaks, but the bundle of twigs is strong."
Tecumseh

The second bit is just my take :)

Nice 👌

A mix of wisdom young and old.

Could you do me a favour actually, as I like your world view. Could you recommend five really good books.

I like wisdom, autobiography, humour, spiritualism, classics, philosophy, that type of thing.

Whenever I go on holiday (like now) I read loads and remember how good it is!

I listen to things now and have just started getting back into it after coming to terms with my brain a bit more.

However, lately I have been listening to the "unfuck yourself" series by Gary John Bishop. It is good to listen to also, because of the Scottish accent. And while it is in the "self help" domain in many ways, I think it ticks off a few of your boxes in terms of humour and philosophy. It is also some pretty decent stuff, and has a huge amount to reflect upon. The parenting one was really interesting.

Nice one man. Will check this guy out and let ye know what I think. I love listening to stuff when I'm driving between Galway and Dublin as I often do for work.


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Wow!
I have seen plants like this that twisted out to the direction of the sun or via an uncomfortable situation... But I haven't seen them in a house

Ya I've only seen something similar when I visited Ta Prohm Temple in Cambodia which was amazing

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Yo!
That pick is real?
Wonderful!
If this kind of tree is seen in a living area in my country, that tree must turn to a deity to a lot of people 😅