Hi,thanks for airing your thoughts.
My husband had a kidney removed in 2016. I think it's amazing he was given no dietary guidance after that. Amazing and ridiculous.
I was expecting some guidance for myself too and nothing arrived. This encouraged me do my homework which perhaps worked out better in the end.
We try here to modify the diet so it is appetizing and does no harm to his remaining kidney.
Managing pain and adapting lifestyle (less beer salt sugar boo) seems to be the easiest path to take just as long as there is still joy in food and drink.
Thanks again, wishing you and hubby the best.