Perseverance and progress.

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Can you change your stars???


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I believe that you can. If you work smart and do the right things then I think that you can better your life. It's definitely easier for some people than others but I live in a country where there is no ceiling to progression for any citizen. The barriers are only your own mental and physical limitations.

That photo above is from one of my favorite movies, " A Knight's tale."

The story of a young peasant who doesn't accept his lot in life and works his way to a position of riches and power. Back then it was a tiered society where breaking upwards was almost impossible but in this age of equal rights and opportunities all it takes is brainpower to change your stars.

Especially in crypto we have seen how people can change their whole lives in a tiny space of time. The ability to build and to innovate is a superpower in the modern age. A single person with an idea and the right drive can change the whole world.

Look at Elon Musk who was sitting at the hand of the American president influencing world politics all from his ability to innovate and build wealth in a single generation. In the old day it took generational wealth to move up the ranks and become a power.

Obviously where you start makes a huge difference.

The ability to succeed coming from a wealthy house, two educated parents and a step up in life is a lot easier than coming from a council estate with limited funds, access to extra activities and supportive parents that push you forward.

It's not impossible to succeed but it does have a lot more hurdles.

It's not always a bad thing though. Fighting for success gives people an hunger that you don't find in pampered protected families.

It's the same in the sporting world. The best athletes are the ones who have come from tough streets. The ones who have had to fight their whole lives for success and have a hunger for a better life.

Struggling brings it's own talents that you will never have if everything is handed to you. Knowing that this is your only option makes you fight harder than knowing there is a safety net.

I used to work in Galway city and spent years there in the same job and same position with no aspiration to move or grow. I could have, just didn't want to.

I was dealing with a customer one day who looked to be a successful person from the clothes, the car and the personality. He said that "Galway was the death of ambition". As a city it was too fun and too safe so people who started working here never wanted to leave or to progress. They just wanted the comfortable lifestyle of the regardless of time passing.

He wasn't wrong.

I loved living there, loved the lifestyle and would have happily stayed at that level for a long time.

My have changed since and I'm working to change my position in life but the hunger of necessity isn't there. We have a comfortable lifestyle working regular jobs so it's hard to be as motivated as people who need to hustle to pay their bills.

We can all move up in the world but motivating ourselves every day is another matter.

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I am of 2 minds on this one.

You can achieve anything you set your heart to. You can hustle and make money and strive and grind yourself into a machine that cares not for your happiness as it consumes you like fuel to generate profit. When you are comfortable, you will want more. You will sacrifice your life on that treadmill and be proud you are running faster than your peers but the track will keep speeding up and increasing in angle til you die.

That’s a pretty grim outlook on capitalism and free enterprise. Not without merit but definitely the wrong attitude if you want any kind of success and comfort.

One thing for sure for me, nothing can happen unless you believe it can happen and work to make it happen. One wild card we have is our passion when it comes to making things happen. Another factor to consider is that people who have a losers mindset can throw a wet blanket on anything we can and will do if we let them affect our attitude and actions. Misery loves company and others cannot see what we see because they don’t have our perspective.

One thing for sure, if we are to achieve something special, there are moments when we will be grinding alone and doing things other people are not willing to do. When you can balance that with being happy where we are as consistently as we can without becoming complacent, we can keep running the marathon and enjoy victories along the way.

I think that we all want more. It's a natural feeling to want things. The machine expends it's whole energy trying to keep that treadmill going.

Buy more stuff, work more hours, be more successful. They push consumerism down our throats to sell more money and trap people in that vicious cycle.

The real way to win is to break out of their cycle and set our own path. Get debt free, invest, create revenue streams and free yourself form the corporate rat race. IMO.

Anyone can do it but not everyone has the will power and want to achieve it. I try to grind away without sacrificing the important parts of life to do it. Just use wasted time instead. The early morning, the scrolling time. Make them worthwhile.

I think slow and steady progress eventually pays off. Though time is burned and lot of things are wasted along the way. I think crypto has helped many people cut off from endless hustles and has given some edge. I am sure you too have noticed this part. I wish I had enough ethereum to sell and quit job but yeah logn way as they say.

Crypto is a game changer for a lot of people. It has opened up access to money and institutions that they don't have in their own country.
It has opened up investing and finances to people with small amounts of money. I have been doing slow and steady for years and it has built up into more. Now it's a different game coming into this bull market. Hopefully we can all do very well over the next year or so.

Changing one's destiny takes a tremendous amount of willpower especially against the background of living in a comfortable and easy convenience society. But it's doable nonetheless, the knowledge and tools are available, we have to seek it out and conduct a ton of experiments to find the right puzzle pieces for our own life and then execute consistently and relentlessly until it's done. The latter is usually the hardest part to conquer, like crossing a huge abyss.

Anything is doable it just takes enormous will power and planning. I think that's what most people are doing in the crypto world. Trying to improve their lot in life with an opportunity to make large sums of money that you won't get through working.

I've failed lots of times in crypto and lost sums of money but over time I've still managed to grow my overall portfolio.

Yes, I think crypto provides an asymmetrical opportunity for people starting from the bottom, so to speak, to climb the wealth brackets in a relatively short amount of time to both better their lives and also contribute to bringing about an alternative financial reality that's more inclusive and transparent than the old tradfi system.

I'll be forever grateful for stumbling into crypto :)

Struggling brings it's own talents that you will never have if everything is handed to you, Not that I am a fan of struggle but you've dropped a sensitive message here. Many talents have died in the corridor of comfort and it mostly turns out the future will not be as bright as they expected.

I grew up in a good household but not a rich one. We always have enough for education and food but never much more than that. It showed us how to work hard, save and be smart with money. I'm hoping to do the same for my kids even though we are in a better position than my parents but it helped me to get places in life and have a good attitude to money and work.

A lot of the next generation don't have that here since the country has a much higher standard of living now and more money so parents hand everything to their kids and they have no work ethic or hunger to grow,

There is nothing bad in transfered wealth at all. In the midst of that, parents should not fail to teach their children financial education at tender age so they can save keep what has been handed over. Have a wonderful Sunday friend
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Indeed, the will, determination, and not accepting your situation and striving to change it really makes a difference.