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RE: Education Debate Challenge #4 - SumatraNate's Entry

in Home Edders3 years ago

Now is the time to keep our kiddos safe and close, but all we do is so that someday, we can launch our children into the big, wide world.

That's the role we, as parents, are trying our hardest to have be the end result! It's not easy or always glamorous but the best things in life aren't. It's amazing watching them grow and develop their skills, personality and ideas.

Really good entry here, I like how you and your wife are doing things. I feel like we are similar in a lot of ways so that's always nice! I've seen people in our friends circles that can't be bothered with their kids when they are out and look for excuses to get rid of them. I think that's a disservice to them in the long run, from an education as well as an emotional standpoint. Kids develop with what they are exposed to so we find it important to be as supportive and loving as possible (even as challenging as that may be sometimes lol).

The life skills you are teaching your kids are great. There is FAR more to an education than we realize or may have been taught growing up. Incorporating important things like how to cook, do the dishes, clean, laundry and fixing small things are huge to build confidence in the little ones! We try to take each of those moments as learning opportunities. That and it helps to have a little helper!

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It's not easy or always glamorous

So true, but the journey is worth it. The wonderful thing about parenting is there is a past, present, and future (yet to come) aspect. All can be enjoyable, tough but enjoyable.

Kids develop with what they are exposed

Everyone makes mistakes, but as parents, my wife and I are striving to grow in the same way that we want our kids to grow. We believe that modeling is just as if not more important than just telling them something. My kiddos are the best judge of my hypocrisy (when my words and actions don't match). They are watching. That keeps me on my toes.

We try to take each of those moments as learning opportunities.

Keep it up! There are so many opportunities. I am glad to hear that other parents are looking for these moments. As you said, a lot of people aren't.

Our little helpers provide a lot of help. Their willingness to serve other members of the family is a huge blessing.

Thanks for stopping by. I enjoyed reading and interacting with your comment.

I've seen people in our friends circles that can't be bothered with their kids when they are out and look for excuses to get rid of them.

I never understood this. When my girls were in school, so many parents would say how they dreaded the holidays and having to keep them entertained, so I assumed this was default. I was so relieved when I spoke to one mum and asked her if she was ready for the holidays and having them at home and she said she loved having them home.

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