WE106] Weekend-Engagement: Conflict management

in Weekend Experiences2 years ago

It is another great weekend with awesome topics to deliberate on or share experience about it as well. It is a privilege to be part of this which I appreciate a lot especially the topic I choose concerning conflict management which says;

How do you deal with conflict? Are you the tackle it head on sort of person, or do you avoid it? Tell us what your style is, and feel free to share an example.

I believe conflict management is a personal character or ability to avoid conflict from occuring which depends on how we handle such situations with our personal attitude. As humans we are different in handling different situations or scenes especially when it involves clash between two individuals.

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I personally, I tried as much as possible not to engage in any clash with people because I believe such scenario doesn't end well which may results to regrets and negative endings. I have tried to caution and control myself on what people may say to me that is annoying and frustrating in other not to create a scene instead while hearing such I just end it with a smile and walk away.

In such cases not everyone can take it likely with what they hear that is bad instead some retaliate or take revenge by doing the same or engage in a fight. I believe sometimes silence matters to avoid negative scenes from occuring even if you feel bad with what others do to you just neglect to avoid it expand to a different scenario.

I have encountered past experiences of people who can't control their anger and end up regretting their actions and in other not to fall victim or engage in such act I resist and control myself by walking away as if nothing just happened which I believe is more easier to enable control management.

It won't be easy but will definitely be worth it if you can avoid such conflict from occuring and this would really be helpful for any individual that can derive such act. Nobody is perfect because we learn everyday and to keep this attitude going, always love everyone around you no matter the situation to enable you have a free and happy life.

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Hi @emeka4

I tend to agree that some conflict is not worth dealing with head on in the heat of the moment and may need some time, but that only works if both/all parties can agree to have a time out and then talk it through once their anger has abated. It's dependent on the type of friendship or relationship as well. Some people will simply not want to talk things out like adults and would rather escalate issues into shouting matches because it makes them feel powerful, but being able to control anger when you're in the middle of a dispute is key to being able to work through it.

Thanks for your take on the topic.

It's a pleasure sharing and I agree on your point as well

Good luck in the contest my friend

Thanks

I always say that internal conflict is an important issue! not all of us have the ability to deal with our problems! and in the long term they bring serious consequences! That's why it's important to see the behavior of the people around us to know if they need our help! GOOD LUCK!

Your truly right on that to avoid issues from occuring really needs to study people around you