There's a lot to unpack from your comment, and this is made difficult by the way it sidesteps most of what I actually wrote.
Yes, the military is at present a volunteer force. That in no way negates my criticism of the recruitment and training process. The threat of selective service conscription still looms, and is still no different from slavery. What is the source of the alleged right to conscript?
You say western armies deter totalitarian regimes. I would in turn point out that the US is growing totalitarian. Anything that is not prohibited must be licensed, registered, tracked, and recorded. The economy is a stifled morass of taxes, subsidies, bailouts, trade restrictions, and regulations. What is the source of the alleged authority to impose these mandates?
We need a voluntary means of security. That was the point of the 2nd Amendment. However, the military is not funded voluntarily. The government claims to represent us without any real evidence of consent, just the veneer of democracy. And the perpetual wars fought by the political class do not secure my liberty.
I mean this question in all sincerity. Do ALL soldiers deserve respect for serving their respective governments? Patriotism isn't a uniquely American feeling. When foreign solders obey foreign governments, does this confer some sort of virtue? When foreign soldiers and civilians defend their homelands from US invasion, are they noble defenders of liberty?