Greetings @meesterboom ,
What a conundrum....
A challenging age...I think it is eleven or so....they realise they are their own person...they each have their own way of dealing with it...girls are usually not as frightened by it as the boys. ^__^
An interesting age...I think my Mother decided it was time for me to become quite familiar with the local book shoppes... anywhere with books....Classics especially.
Kind Regards,
Bleujay