You're still asking the wrong questions, so I'll repeat: why do you think the ultra rich do everything they can to make you believe it IS the free market that made them ultra rich? And why do you believe them?
The free market has been around for thousands of years. It is like gravity. You don't have to believe in falling to fall. If I fall off my chair, it has nothing to do with belief. Things happen. We fall. We all know this. Money can have value. Not always. But it can. Does not have to but it can at times. Time has value. Resources has value. Love is very valuable. Like priceless. Friendships is valuable. Different things have value. The free market is all about exchanges. A relationship is a trade between two people for example. I like interacting with people. I love life. I love people.