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What is your favorite thing about being in a relationship
After my first breakup with my first and the second which I was the mastermind, I decided to take a break from anything that involved love.
I kind of felt I didn't have love to give out, and I knew I was going to be the worst partner to any guy. Thinking back I think it was me just being selfish with my space and heart. I wasn't intrigued to be in any relationship with anyone until I met my current partner.
How we met was quite strange and I remember vividly how he asked me out and I outright told him I wasn't interested and didn't want to do a relationship with anyone apart from that it will surprise you that from the first day I met him, I disliked him for no reason but now, our love story is indeed a sweet one.
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Accepting him after months of consciously rejecting him, I realized that it was one of the best decisions I have ever made in my life. I would say everything he does down to the little things he does are special moments, and special acts that always got me having butterflies, and tingling sensations because these are things I am quite sure wouldn't have been able to do for him. After all, I know I am terrible when it comes to love.
I got to know what it feels like to be genuinely loved by someone. The conscious steps he makes to make sure I am happy no matter what it will take from him.
The late-night calls, the love messages, the unexpected credit alerts, the gifts, countless times he had to prepare food for me and bring it to the school when I least expected him to be doing that, and many more.
He pays attention to the gist that is most times not relevant, even to little details about me that he acts upon and most times gets me worried because he makes a conscious effort to fulfill those things and I am like, **"Those things aren't such a big deal though", ** but he doesn't care.
What gets me tingling more too is our movie day, he isn't a Nollywood kind of guy, while I am an all-rounder kind of movie person, but he makes sure to watch every Nigerian movie with me.
What I love more is that even though he loves and wants to watch a particular horror movie, he would complain that I delete the movie because he hates seeing me react badly to the danger or horror part of the movie. Since he knows I have a fright issue and easily get triggered out of stubbornness would download or get a scary movie on my phone for us to watch.
This is my entry to the #HiveGhana Weekly Engagement-WK 15: Join Us For A Week Filled With Exciting Activities and here is the link to the prompt post
