Hi Jerry, Thank you for your thoughts.
I have to move with an order to vacate. If my plans don't get achieved, I am homeless. I have no choice but to depend an a person to call me back.
That is why I mention the economics, because if I had $, the hell with depending on anyone, I could make the arrangements easily, because money talks and bullshit walks.
Murphy's law is more like a curse for me, one that follows me around.
I think the points you make are very valid, something always interferes with plans going the way I hope they will go, unless I am the one I am depending on, then my success rate is so much higher.
Have a great day my friend.