Either a giant squeeze or a strong handshake, two key reactions I get from men after a profound conversation. I agree with both. Both convey the authenticity of the soul from human to human, the gratitude that we draw close to God, and have typical love for one another.
I've had a lot of experiences with men lately, including some raw and legitimate conversations about fear, anger, and rage that overwhelm us as men. Plus, every collaboration is exciting as reliability increases.
It is common for people to need a sense of control, and I have had the experience that many of us humans are in control and we don't know why.
The main thing I discovered about myself is the importance of knowing exactly how important control is. I hate being crazy, and if there is anything more deplorable than feeling confused with myself it is when the family, having no idea what my psyche is doing, asks me more. It is not their fault. It never is. However, sometimes they can handle the worst of my superiority. The family does this for life, but they have adapted us to make us feel remorse and shame when we don't understand the situation.
I know countless men who experience these equivalent things and feel amazing just the same. I am grateful to be in good company.
The best way to deal with the guilt and shame that come with learned behavior is to discuss it and let go of the guilt and shame.
I urge men to relate to their pain, fear, and compassion as it cannot harm them and can only help them and their partners. It means realizing that we are often overwhelmed by life, and underestimating this or making people feel guilty for not being enough is the abuse itself.
I have seen countless men on the hike free themselves from submission to their guilt and shame, even though they can come forward and not be afraid of their fear, recognize and feel sad for themselves. Have mercy and consider all these so-called wrong things as fuel for your otherworldly transformation. The work that God wants to do in each of us.
By manipulating the habits of erotic entertainment with small gatherings of men, I have seen men evolve as human beings more suited to all in their notoriety, especially to resist harmony, expectations, and happiness. I saw shame rising from their shoulders, a tenderness on their faces, and a protected power describing their progress. Authenticity is compromised.
Fantastic quality increases and regains strength when a profound disgrace is pronounced in a protected encounter.
Countless men have figured out how to contain their problems, fear, shame, and guilt. Hence, men are not interesting, but men are much more reluctant to express their inadequacy, more often than not they fail to realize that only the hard man can fail.
We need to expose the lie: intense men envelop their feelings. If we hide what we feel we will become fragile only in the most terrible way possible. Quality comes from telling the truth about what to expect.
Men need a meeting where they can share without judgment or advice unless they're looking for a reminder.
Most of the time people need to be heard and checked that they are not crazy, idiots, etc. We as a transparent and unique central point. Furthermore, our experience of the world, a man for man, is equally legitimate.
It must be an honor to hear someone express their vision, we connect, we try to find out what life is like for them. If God listens like this, he sacrifices us too! This type of service is always bidirectional.
Men need to be heard and seen and the most important thing is that men have energy, are fully open, share their weight and let their perception inform them that the same things are the key to recovery, mental and enthusiastic.
Towards the end I have to say something truly significant: There is a place of momentary guilt and shame for our bad behavior, but it simply offers to bring us to the point where we regret what we have done and awakens the correction of these evils. It is about restorative equity. It also leads to harmony for all.
