In the rarest circumstance of us becoming more than friends... what's next?
Will we stay that way for good?
Will we evolve to something even bigger?
But what if it didn't work?
Will we be back to being friends... or
Will we be nothing but strangers?
@tegoshei
Earlier today, I finished reading a BL comic called "Escape Journey". It's a very interesting story of two friends who supported each other in their younger days, fell in love with each other, faced with a lot of troubles... eventually went to different directions until they met again.
At first, I thought it was fate which brought them together again, but actually... on of them created this chance encounter. In the story, the main characters had really complicated relationship... it was hard for them to find a label. But somehow I thought, do we really need to label every relationship that we have? I mean... they just wanted to be their for each other. Yes, they were able to pass the point of friendship when they kissed and did the deed, but emotionally, it's the same... right?
I have this friend from somewhere in Washington State that I met online. We sometimes find ourselves opening up to each other even with our deepest thoughts. One time he told me that he sometimes feels lonely and that he wanted to have someone to be romantically involved with him, because he wanted to feel that "emotional connection". I got curious and asked... why should it be related to romance? Aren't friends enough when you're only looking for "emotional connection"? Well, unless you want some physical intimacy that's no longer under the jurisdiction of friendship, then that's the time you look for someone to be romantically involved with.
But then, he told me that there's a difference between an emotional connection between you and your friend from the emotional connection you feel towards your lover. And I was like. "Oohh-kay" But I actually don't get it. haha
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I somehow realized what he said after relating it to same-sex relationship. Love is much easier to understand. haha I know, I'm strange and crazy... but I just love how pure and true BL is.
Ohh! There's something I realized as I read more and more BL comics. Most of the characters, aren't actually homosexuals or gays... majority of them are demisexuals (like me.. lol). They simply fell in love after being emotionally attached to the person who has always been there for them, but the thing is... they happen to fall in love with someone of the same sex. :)
Aaaaahhhh!!!! My mind is wandering again! This is what I get for reading too much... xD But what can I do??? I'm in love with the thought of falling in love. haha I'll end here before I blabber more nonsense... See you again! (^_^)/