Why parents are failing

in Proof of Brain2 years ago (edited)

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It was a great opportunity for me to come across this site and post directly to #proofofbrain. I'm really happy to discuss this kind of topic in the midst of parent in this community and allover other communities on #hiveblog.

When talking about parentis it Obviously some parents don't know their role as a parent
Often a parenting role has become more difficult for people.

Parenting is not a child's play to joke with before you make the decision to become a parent, let's keep it in mind more than raising money for the family.
Sometimes parents always have something special to pay for their children, but because they do not know their role as parents, they send their children to boarding school and some of them came back with some abnormality as drug addicts.
The role of parent can never be replaced by another parent.

Today, most parents do not have time for their children without knowing their well-being. Instead of parents, a teacher is used to replace their duties. Most children do not have time to walk around their parents because most of them are blindfolded by their work, they give the most priority to work.

Most fathers only see their children once or twice a month. I remember when I was in high school, I have a friend who told me that he always sees his father twice a month. How will this influence the moral education of our children as fathers?

Not to the fathers who don't have to take care of his family's business, if he doesn't they will say it lazy man and another way if he does they will say he has no time for his family , so it's another influence on father's need to balance it.

Parents should do things in their own personal way, the way you want your family to be treated, I wonder if some parents spend less time with their children and want more time for themselves. In this case, some parents leave the house 6 o'clock in the morning without seeing their children, and when they come back in the evening, the child is already sleepy and you are also tired, you can not spend time even when they are awake.

Most houses are nanny and housekeeper who will tell the condition of their children. Saying this, it's not just about money, good life and education for the kids, parents make sure their kids are good takecare and should have custody of their kid, not nanny or teachers.

It's a shame for most parents, even holidays and some weekends, that they supposedly spent time with them, some parents still send their kids to swimming lessons, horse lessons, tekwando, etc, even though they are all good, but will that contribute to their success in business, what roles tekwando fulfills for children's success, are they useful ones in real life; how do you send a child to walk and learn to fight, you certainly encourage them to look for trouble.

The structure of a building that was not well founded tends to collapse if you do not have enough time to invite the proper moral education of your children, you lay the foundation without bricks.

Advice

We know your kids can't be with you all their lives, but the young age is very important, whatever they learn at that age is irreplaceable.
Children need something that creates a bond between you and them. Parents should start scheduling time to spend with their kids, especially on weekends, but instead you letting them learn every day.
I always imagine today's kids learning every day of the week. Some, if they do not learn, will watch television, if not television they will play with their mobile device and this sometimes causes conflict between children.

I remember when kids were allowed to play with their colleagues, now the insecurity has bridged the relationship, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't let them have time with you.
Parental care is the best, there is a minimum of what teachers or nanny can do in their lives, you only know the version you want your kids to be, so by spending your time you are raising them with good decency.

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Conclusion

Bible say trained up a child. Devote your time for your children will makes you impact that special moral you want for them. Parenting goes beyond providing money for the family, it extral duties all parent must learn how to do in other to help the future of the world.

Thanks for Reading

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