I'm referring to the visceral distrust of AI. I don't personally think it has merit. That animal part of us has a distrust of cleverness.
I think what you are hoping is that higher intelligence would come with higher conscientiousness. I think these are separate things. Conscientiousness can be inculturated so that intelligence is not necessary. I think your daughter is the perfect example. She is conscientious about cleaning up after yourself and not calling people idiots. I'm sure she's a bright young mind, but she didn't need 600 IQ to understand that certain things aren't right.