fear is a human-perceived emotion that has a strong effect on our mind and body. Fear is the threat of injury from emotional, psychological or fantasy.
The fear itself is when you make a shadow or remind yourself of what does not exist.
Many people do not really know what they are afraid of and why.
We all have something different that scares us. Some have a natural fear that prevents them from sleeping alone in the house, walking alone. Some are afraid of heights, darkness, people, ghosts, witches, walking alone in the yard. But with all these, it still did not define the real cause of fear and why, without asking more people.
That’s why I have to put things the right way by asking different people before jumping into my writting, to know people biggest fearb and reasons for their fears. Those are the interviewer's name and their fears.
Failure - Blessing Johnson
Putting my efforts into something, and in the end it does not work. I regard failure as the greatest fear in my life. Taking a step and failing is my biggest fear. Sometimes I always think differently, if I fail what people will say about it, they will laugh at me, so I'm usually always scared of this.
Decision Making- Ajarat Adediran
What I'm afraid of is making a decision, I once made a wrong decision that turned my life upside down and I'm still trying to balance it. I always see decisions as the biggest fear when I have to make decisions about things in life. Making a decision is not bad, but once it is a wrong decision, you just walk around in the same circle. Meanwhile, you will never know what kind of decision made you angry or good when you first made it, later when you started seeing reaction, then you realize what kind of decision you made.
Poverty- Collins Emmanuel
No one wants to be a burden except the fear of the Lord, what always comes to mind and always scares me is poverty. I personally come from a poor family and I know how hard it is for us so I do not want to live the same life, it is my biggest fear not to get what I want.
Losing love one- Priscilla Peace
The love bond between me and my loved ones is so connected .. I always imagine what it will be like to lose my loved ones. Even though I lost my dad in high school and I know how much of an impact this man has on the family, his presence means a lot to me. My biggest fear now and ever is losing my loved ones. When I connect with someone, it is very hard for me to forget that person so easily.
Death - Afolabi Steven
Death is my biggest fear in life, I know that one day we will all die, death is inevitable, but something is always unclear to me. If we die, we go, is there another world? I always think about this several times and always bring fear into my mind.
Fight - Tony Gabriel
I do not know why I do not care about fear of life, all I know is that fear exists and I have always only observed it when I quarreled with someone I am not always myself. I am a kind of person I like to earn respect, so I am always afraid to fight, say a word and avoid losing my dignity. I realized that everything you said can not be reversed, like broken eggs that can not be changed.
With much of this view from different people, I know it's clear that we have different things that we're afraid of and the reason why everyone's scared.
What am I fear of, why do I fear?
There are three things I know that scare me the most: * Woman * Dark * Dying without any impact.
When it comes to women, they are the mother of the world, but no one can succeed without giving them the regards. I have seen many similarities where the man's life was ruined by the woman.
There are different types of women in a person's life, those who support your dream and those who do not want your dream to come true in some way. Wife easily ruins things. I am always afraid that one day I will choose a woman that I will live fully together, and my biggest fear is if I choose the wrong woman for myself.
My mother always tells me to avoid not fighting with women, it is very hard for them to forgive, usually people think that a woman's heart is easy to influence, but let me tell you, underestimate their power and cunning manners do not.
I've seen many cases of women that I can not explain them all here. But my point here is that women are the biggest fear in my life.
Darkness : When I am in the dark I am always very scared, sometimes I always imagine that someone will hurt me. Darkness is the time of evil, so I always avoid losing sight. Eyes are the king of the body part
Dead without impact : There are many ways you can influence life, make something happen, achievement and many good things come together and are called impact. I'm always afraid that if I have no impact, it's easy to forget my name.
As we know, the name of the impact will not be cleared. I see it as a great fear when I look back on how people die every day without unfulfilled destiny, many die without much impact on them. Oh, it's really sad to die with an unfulfilled fate.
Way to overcome fear
Know your fears : fears can be overcome if you are aware of your fears, know what really scares you
Clear overview of what you are afraid of :
If you have a clear idea of what you are afraid of, you can easily overcome your fears. "Oh, I'm afraid I would not get any closer" is one of the good examples here.Hold and control your imagination : Usually people think a lot about something and it leads to fear, for example your imagination when you pay attention. You already imagine what will happen without it happening.
Exercise : Usually when you are afraid of something, your heart beats fast. Learn how to control your breathing when you encounter something you care about. I think you can overcome the fear with it.
Gratitude : Always fill your heart with gratitude, no matter how little effort you put into life, always keep the feeling of gratitude in your head. If you have gratitude in your heart, you will always overcome fear in every possible way.
Fear will always be a fear, there is no way you will be a living being without fear.
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