The way we speak, always decide the outcome. Speaking is way to create an impression and always help in sorting out the issue. The way someone speaks, including their tone, language, and non-verbal cues, can build or damage relationships. Our choices and actions, influenced by the words we use, can shape our future. In some belief systems, words and actions are seen as having a direct impact on one's karma and future destiny. In this context, our Sanskrit have following to say :
लक्ष्मीर्वसति जिह्वाग्रे जिह्वाग्रे मित्र बान्धवा |
जिह्वाग्रे बन्धनं प्राप्तं जिह्वाग्रे मरणं ध्रवम् ||
Lakshnirvasati jihwaagre jihwaagre mitra bandhawaa
Jihwaagre bandhanam praptam jihwaagre maranam dhruvam.
Vasati = resides.
Jihwaagra = tip of the tongue.
Mitra = friends.
Bandhawa= relatives
Bandhanam = bondage.
Maranam = death.
Dhruvam = certain
i.e. The manner in which one speaks (expresses his thoughts) is very cruicial. The author says that on the tip of one's tongue Goddess Lakshmi resides, so also friends and relatives. Through the tip of his tongue one gets bondage, and it is also certain that through its (improper) use one can even face death.
The moral of the Shloka is that if a person has proper control over his speech, he can get very rich, have good and reliable friends and relatives. Improper use of speech can land a person into trouble and may even result in his death.
Speaking clearly and correctly ensures that our message is understood without ambiguity, reducing the potential for misunderstandings and conflicts. Clear and confident speaking can create an impression of knowledge and expertise, building trust and credibility with others. Speaking with respect and empathy fosters positive relationships and promotes understanding between individuals from different backgrounds.
Rather than speaking bad, try to speak in better way to create a nice atmosphere.
