This is an unfortunately common story. Happy that your son's path diverged but it is sad to think about the other family, and sobering to think about what might have been. Sorry you got a double whammy dose of death this week. Sending you love <3
BTW has anyone notified you yet that you are on the @spaminator blacklist, either because your own account was hacked or because you have set up a vote trail to follow another user who ended up being hacked? Visit the @spaminator profile and read the posting there to find out the steps you need to take to secure your account and be removed from the blacklist. Let me know if you have any questions